Wednesday, March 18, 2009

The results are in!

I’m here to disappoint everyone. Sorry. Drug guy turned out to be just like the rest of the guys. Interested in only one thing. His only redeeming quality is that he was up front about it. Not what I’m looking for, but I would much rather that he was a jerk to begin with than put on a good guy act to try to hook me.

One thing I have discovered after returning to dating after a ten-year relationship is that many things are considered acceptable that once were not. When did it become okay for a guy to send you pictures of his junk that he took with his cell phone? To ask what kind of panties you have on? Give me a break!

The sad part is that in the beginning I just accepted that that is the way things were, and thought that was the way I was supposed to be. I put up with and did a lot of things that I would not have normally done. Because I was trying to fit into a mold.

Fortunately, I figured out that I didn’t have to do that. It just took me too long to figure it out. So, see ya later drug guy!


  1. Good for you Vevay! What a jerk that guy is! I am happy that you discovered this before you were emotionally involved!

  2. Good on you... dickhead he is!!

    Keep on keeping on, you will find your man soon I am sure of it!!!


  3. Whew! At least you found out before you invested too much of yourself. I'm hearing more and more about guys picture texting their junk in order to try to lure the ladies in. Ummm, hello? Those things aren't that attractive to begin with! LOL.

  4. Ohhhh I am sorry he wasn't the right kind of person! Guess it's best you found out right away!!! The right one is out there! Blessings, Lisa

  5. I am not surprised actually. The right man will treat you with the respect of a pauper bowing to a princess. Then, you being the truly loving, beautiful soul that you are, will treat him the same way.
    Equality, respect and knowing in your hearts, that love is a doing word.
    " Love is as love does."

  6. WhoreDog! Yes, I agree, thank goodness you found out up front. No wasted time!
    OMGosh! I would freak if a guy sent a pic of his "junk". Thank God I quit dating 24 years ago. I would die if my husband sent me a pic of his junk as well! What's up with the phone porn? Little girls at the jr high & high school have been doing that too I hear. Freaky Freaky!
    I love what Adrina Lima said about men/dating: "Men have to respect that this is my choice. If there is no respect, then they don't want me". She was refering to her choice of waiting for marriage to give sex. Demand respect. From the get go. Without it, you have nothing.

  7. He took a big chance, sending you that picture... it could be all over the net by now, lol! It is a good thing that he was up front about what he was after. So many fellas keep that one up their sleeve for a bit, act like the nicest, most sensitive guys on earth, then act all put out if you won't, well, put out!

  8. Oh no, he didn't!

    Gotta laugh really....does that actually work for some of them???

    Too weird....